Are we Friends or enemy?
Enemy’s enemy is a friend and a
Friend’s friend is an enemy.
. The best relation one can have is friendship not because its eternal but it’s the only relation where
There is no distinction of class, creed, gender and species! I can have a dog as a friend and still share everything and learn from it. But, after all it’s a relation, which has to stand the testimony of time age and space. A relation that does not require your approval, a relation that is tested by situations and very often do not fail .A relation in which one has to nurture, care and share and devote time. I do agree that all relation has to undergo the above-mentioned test of the ups and downs of life but friendship is different because a friend is a neutral person since the person may or may not be a brother, a father, a mother, son or your sister.
He is the judge to your deeds, mirror to your conscious, and storehouse of your innermost and wildest fears and thoughts. One who has read the Mahabharatha can know the real friend ship of Lord Krishna and Sudhama,
Karna and Duryodhana.
He is as close to you as your neighbor and still a stranger. I will not be wrong if I say friendship is a relation with self and god. Like god, friend is a stranger and still dwells in your heart. What I just said might be an ideal relationship of friends. It’s a relationship where the giver gives at his will and still the receiver is termed selfish.
Till now, I had been discussing idealism of friendship now a wrong side of this right relation is what comes to me. Many in this world is cheated by this word, many fall prey to “false friends’. How can there be true friend and false friend? A friend is a friend so there can never be such a term true or false attached to it. One who is not true to self cannot be true to others and hence he cannot be friend.
Teenage season breeds this relation of friendship more than any other age of man. This is the age full of adventure, fun, and enthusiasm flowing in the warm blood of not a child or an adult person. When these groups of birds with same feather flock togather they are exposed to real world with rosy spectacles of dreams. Everything they think or do or act is argument, behavior is irresponsible, and act is foolish according to the so-called grown up parents. Their freedom is a misguided bull running helter shelter in the social market. When a new bird is mixed into this group it will carry the same behavior! Close
thansk subbu sir
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Thank you my dear Ajit Nambiar for the different angle of expressing the relationships.
Good examples from our ancient texts and well expressed.
Relationships are based upon mutual admirations, trust and understandings.
Subbu
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